Since becoming a mum, this is the first time in a long time that I’m finally starting to feel like my old self. Becoming a mum is strange, although you’re the same person it instantly changes you, you’re the same but different. Along with your whole world being turned upside down and getting to grips with your new version of normal with your precious babe you naturally put yourself at the bottom of the priority list.
Rather than picking out a pretty outfit or wearing your best dress, practical and functional rules the outfit choices. My general opinion was that I’m going to be smothered in some kind of baby related stains at some point in my day, so what’s the point in making an effort with my clothes. A uniform of jeans and a top was my everyday choice of outfit and I never spent any money on myself unless I needed too because baby clothes are way cuter anyway.
Over the past few months and now that Aiden is more independent, I’ve turned some of my attention to looking after myself better. First thing on my list was to tackle my wardrobe. I have a more detailed post coming up about this but I really believe that identifying your own personal style is an important action of self-care. Feeling comfortable in your clothes can be a major confidence boost and with confidence, you feel empowered to pursue opportunities and avenues that you possibly otherwise would have left unexplored.
My underwear was in desperate need of an overhaul. My tired old breastfeeding bras went in the bin and have been replaced with my much preferred pretty and vintage style choices. Updating my underwear drawer swiftly snowballed to updating my wardrobe. I didn’t want to splurge on anything and everything so I made note of pieces that my wardrobe was missing and stuck to creating a capsule wardrobe. I tried to keep to neutral tones that work well together and with what I already own , however, a few bolder pieces caught my eye that I just couldn’t resist.
1. Denim dress, Zara //2.Twill Shorts, H&M//3.Nude Flip Flops, Kurt Gieger//4. Striped Midi Pencil Dress, Warehouse//5.Hiedi Oxford Shirt, House of Fraser//6.Woven Scarf, H&M//7.Sleeveless Blouse, H&M//8. Light Denim Jacket, New Look//9.Flat Metallic Roman Sandals, Zara//10.Multicoloured Stripe V-Neck Cami (I got the dress version), New Look//11.Jersey Top (various colours), H&M// 12.Superstretch Trousers, H&M// 13. Blue Stripe Frill Midi Dress, New Look
There are still some gaps that I’m working on, but I’m really happy with how my wardrobe is looking at the moment. I’ve also stocked up on some basic vest tops and accessories like statement necklaces to jazz up my outfits. I’m not really a follower of fashion, I just choose to buy things because I like them and if it’s in fashion that’s a bonus but not really the point for me. All of these items were bought with convenience in mind, things that I can throw on with no real effort required which is great for when I’m pushed for time.
WHAT’S IN YOUR SPRING/SUMMER WARDROBE EDIT? DO YOU FOLLOW THE LATEST FASHION TRENDS?
it is nice now my two are older that I don’t have to think as much about practicality and comfort – though it was that way in the early days. The dress from warehouse is gorgeous!
I LOVE that dress so much. 🙂
I think it’s great that you are starting to focus on yourself more.
My wardrobe is a bit all over the place at the moment, with being pregnant. Just whatever is comfy really.
I totally get you! I loved being pregnant in the summer as I could wear maxi dresses which are really comfy.
Oh my! LOVE everything SO much!! I love your style a lot. We have similar taste. Those sandals are so pretty! The light denim jacket is beautiful. I’ve been looking for a denim jacket for ages, I’ll have to get myself to New Look. My underwear needs updating too… I wonder if updating it will land me into a new wardrobe too 😉 Hehe.
That denim jacket is so pretty and goes with practically everything!
As you I don’t follow any fashion trands. I don’t like to dress as everyone else: space to colours and originality in my wordrobe!
Perfect! I like your sense of individuality when it comes to fashion.
I defiantly need to update my wardrobe since having Lil’s I still don’t fully feel like myself but will hopefully get there one day x
You will one day, it take time.
Lovely summery choices Im terrible when it comes to buying clothing for me and tend to focus more on my son’s outfits.
That was me, and still is most of the time.
I don’t tend to go with the fashion flows but like to have ‘staple’ essentials that I can jazz up with accessories. I love shorts during the summer and dresses. H&M is my favourite place for cheap but pretty dresses right now. And long skirts as well!
Staples are really important in a wardrobe to build on. H&M is brilliant at the moment, love it!
That dress from Warehouse is AMAZING!! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Thank you lovely! 🙂
I think it is hard to find suitable clothes after having a child. I love the midi dress you have picked and always feel comfortable in them x
They’re such a flattering type of dress, love the length too!
I was in H&M and New Look over the weekend and loved their summer items!! You’ve selected some of my fave here x
Thanks Zoe! both have some great bits in at the moment.
I love the stripes, I’m wearing a navy and white striped top right now 🙂 I so need that denim dress!
It’s such a cute dress!
I am not one for following latest trend, whatever tickles my fancy I get lol but I do have a wardrobe capsule
Ha! Love that you just go for it and have fun with your style.
I love your picks they are absolutely amazing – I have to admit I never manage to make a capsule wardrobe up I keep adding more bits the I do need! whoops” x
Hahaha! Sometimes I have the same problem but I’m learning.
It is amazing you spend 9 months pregnant getting bigger by the day, getting fed up with your tents you are wearing, and dreaming of getting back into your old clothes again, and then baby comes along and you go for comfort and practical. I am terrible as I can find myself relying on my jeggings more but come the nicer weather I do like to wear nicer clothes, and update my wardrobe. I do love your choices x
It’s funny isn’t it! I know exactly what you mean.
I really i could change my wardrobe but I have the same old clothes for each season 🙁
I think it’s time for an update!!! ????
You’ve picked some beautiful pieces! I love the idea of a capsule wardrobe but I’m so fickle I doubt I’d be able to stick with it, haha!
Hahaha! That was my fear too, but so far so good.
I love you dress selection, the two you chose are lovely.
Thank you!
I love these picks. all of the striped pices are my favorite. I love the Roman sandals too.
I LOVE my stripes!
I love the multi-coloured striped cami it is gorgeous and I love that there is a dress version. So perfect for summer!
It’s the perfect striped dress for summer.
This is exactly what I need to do after baby is born. I just want to be able to throw whatever on and still look stylish – that would be awesome! Xx
Once you’ve got your wardrobe sorted is a god send. I love being able to just throw on clothes in the morning and let them do the work.
I bet it must be so hard to think of yourself and not go for practical when you’ve got a young child. So glad you’re feeling more like yourself now. Underwear is always a great place to begin x
Yes! It’s a great starting point she updating your wardrobe.
Convenience over fashion anyday for me! I’m totally in the same boat as yourself
Convenience is so important, especially with a baby!
Love everything you have featured – its very my style!
Thank you!
I love the look of the striped Cami and more so in a dress version x
It’s lovely in the dress version.
ooo i love everything youve picked here. that #13 dress is beautiful!
I would love to have a huge overhaul of my wardrobe – no lie, I still have clothes from sixth form, that’s like 10 years ago! If only I could afford to start from scratch!
Motherhood changed me completely. I am still struggling to find my old self so I can relate.
I’m currently in the process of whittling down my wardrobe to a more minimalist style so this capsule wardrobe post is a great inspiration to me! xxx
Ekk I love the multicoloured striped cami, and like you I’d probably have opted for the dress too ????
I think I prefer the dress version, but couldn’t find it on their website.
What a stunning selection of clothing. I especially love that long striped dress (no4) and the cute bow flip flops (no3) I would like to own most of these items!
Thank you! They’re 2 of my favourite pieces.
You’ve chosen some really nice pieces. I need a new denim jacket for this summer, I stupidly sold mine last year on ebay!
I think a denim jacket is a great staple.
Oxford shirt and the denim jacket are my top choices. 🙂
Mine too, and they go with so many things.
It is a lovely moment when you discover you can be a little freer with your outfit choices when the little ones grow a bit. You are so gorgeous that you would look stunning in any of those outfits!
Aww that’s so lovely of you to say. Thanks Helen!
I love the idea of a capsule wardrobe, would be a great excuse to sort out my wardrobe!
It’s the perfect excuse!
I’ve reduced my clothing selection following KonMarie method but I am not sure I am ready for a capsule wardrobe as yet.